How to fix conflict situation in the family is discussed in creating peace
Conflict situation can happen anywhere There are many factors such as family, work, and more, because talking is natural. Family problems are a common occurrence. Because every family has a potential conflict between members of the home as well. Be it a different opinion, parenting, health problems or financial status. Today we have some advice or guidelines for discussing conflicting family situations. From the doctor to leave.
The family institution is the smallest. But the greatest Conflict situation That happened is a concern. Which in this situation What is important is a peaceful conversation. By being very open, emphasizing on having to open up a lot more than usual and communicate with respect and dignity. Because this situation is extremely fragile in both feelings.
Things to be aware of
The bang and the collapse are a little closer together If unable to talk further It is advisable to stop talking and ask for a time-out to calm the body and mind first. Call your mind back first and check your mind again if it’s cool enough to talk to each other. If you are not ready, it is recommended to take a break from talking. If ready, then negotiate again.
Not to forget
Although brain food (thoughts, beliefs) are not the same But we can always have the same food, that is, love and acceptance.
Most of the problems that could cause conflicts.
- Illness
- Financial problems
- Personal habits and habits
- Defect in responsibility
- Infidelity
- Violence
- Lack of care and lack of time for each other
Facing a peaceful conversation has the following guidelines and rules :
- Conscious before the start to talk. Take a deep breath And be kindly prepared because having to listen to the opinions of the other side that we strongly disagree with There is a chance that you will be angry or angry. Therefore have to be very mindful and prepare very kind.
- Listen to the other side to the end “Listen until you understand” how what he holds is worth his life.
This is very important. Many people have collapsed since this point. Is not listening to the other side The listening should be How does it come to listen until you understand what they value? What is the value or meaning to his mind and life? So he held on to this much. Give him the opportunity to tell what he really wants to convey. The listening side will have a good experience from a different perspective. Help broaden your perspective of life And make it more into - Not interrupting because interrupting is not listening to the interlocutor But is expecting the interlocutor to listen to us Human entanglement is often caused by this point. Is not like listening to other people Especially the opinion that we do not like But expect him to listen to us Quarrels often arise from this point.
- Tell me how you feel Because feelings are an essential part of communication that helps to understand our fellow man. Including the heart of our own Because it allows us to revisit their own feelings as well as how we really feel about this.
- Help each other find the treasure of each belief (Collaboration) Good listening helps to share treasures. Everything has its advantages. It is important to find out what treasure the other party has. Both the spiritual value and the value of life. So we can help each other to make things better.
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